When guys play hard to get

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I couldn't believe how cool and collected and seemingly not interested the popular girls were in the guys who basically threw themselves at their feet. As I grew up I realized that playing hard to get isn't cool, it's manipulative.

And it also perpetuates a lot of sexist thinking about women and furthers the divide between the genders needlessly. If I like you, I'm going to tell you that I like you and hope that you will one day let me cup your balls. I won't pretend I don't.

I won't hurl myself around making you feel like I need you, because I don't. But that doesn't mean I'm not interested in you. This technique works with men who are worthy of dating. Does it work on all men?

Just the good ones. See, when you put yourself out there honestly, directly, and with a little bit of real personality you get all the good that comes with that. That doesn't mean that playing hard to get isn't a thing.

It definitely is, and it works on some men. Guys aren't stupid.

They know when a woman is playing hard to get, and they know when it When guys play hard to get for them. This begs the question or at least it did for me do men play hard to get? It's that simple: don't play games life's too short for stupid games.

But we don't have to play oblivious, and it can occasionally look like playing hard to get. That's one thing women seem to be really good at, just moving on before they waste any more time. And I never heard a man play hard to get. Even for women, it's really stupid. I'm extremely busy during the week so it can take me hours to respond to texts at times, sometimes I just don't feel like going on a date so I'll cancel and chill with friends, etc.

Most dudes don't play any games, because they don't want girls to play games with them. If a dude is playing games then chances are he does really well with women, because desperate guys generally view most game-playing as risky. In lots of relationships.

Sexual and otherwise. Makes people come at you harder. Let's you know if they really want you. They either just wanted a generic boyfriend or a friend with benefits who wouldn't stray. I guess I just want someone who actually is interested in me rather than interested in attention or sex. In my history, unfortunately, it seems they didn't really like me at all by the end. If you don't like me then what's the point? I know it's a terrible strategy but I'm sick of one-way conversations where I ask and they answer.

Does it matter who I am at all? Now if I am talking to a girl I'm interested in and I ask 'where do you work, what are your hobbies, goals, favorite beers, stories? I don't want to be a generic funny, cute guy. I want to be myself.

The only time I stop initiating is when it isn't mutual, in which case I distance myself a bit. If they don't initiate at least 40 percent of the time roughjust about equal with some elbow roomI assume they aren't interested and move on. For more of her work.

in. YourTango Experts. Photo: getty. Rebecca Jane Stokes. When I first started dating I ached to be one of those girls who could play hard to get. Subscribe to our newsletter. now for YourTango's trending articlestop expert advice and personal horoscopes delivered straight to your inbox each morning.

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